I don't know if it's because I'm getting older and it's finally sinking in, but I've been discovering lately that when you start to peel back the layers of someone, you will likely discover they are pretty much the same as you.
This thing we call "social networking" has certainly allowed me a closer glimpse into the thoughts, emotions, joys, sorrows, and challenges of friends, acquaintances, family, and colleagues. I was one of those people who swore I would never join Facebook or blog or chat online, but, well, here I am blogging. And for those of you who are "connected" to me on Facebook, it's pretty clear I'm addicted.
Every day these communities, without fail, provide some sort of inspiration, whether it be in a brief story or simple phrase or quote. And you see that no matter what you see on the outside, every single one of us feels happy, scared, lonely, defeated, hopeful, faith-filled, determined, challenged, confused, betrayed, lost, and excited at various times through life. Our stories may differ, but we all feel the same emotions.
And beneath all the layers, we all want the same things -- contentment, happiness, to be loved, to be needed, a house to call our own, a family, dear friends, enough money to not have to worry about money, self-worth.
These social networks have provided growth for my real estate business, and it's been pretty amazing to watch that evolve. But perhaps more importantly, they've provided connections to people who have been great sounding boards and support systems for any number of topics.
Coming to understand that underneath it all we're basically the same makes it easier to try to stop passing judgment, to be more tolerable, and to be more patient.
Who would have thought I'd learn that from social networking??
That's awesome, Peggy. I'm so happy you see the power of social networking. I've created friendships with people I never would have met if I hadn't been a social networking butterfly.
Be thankful you're learning it the easy way!
Soldiers in the trenches look each other in the eye and learn what you have learned so happily, so easily. We ARE all the same, but some reach this understanding with less tragedy or hardship. You are blessed.